A Grooms Guide to Wedding Planning | Seattle Wedding Planner
Very often when one hears of a newly engaged couple they tend to immediately think of the bride-to-be; what her dress will look like, what she’ll do with her hair and makeup, and wonder how stressed she will be planning “her” wedding. It is assumed that the groom gets to sit back and relax with very little responsibility other than to make sure they show up to the altar on time. While all of this may be true that the groom may not be bothered by the colors, theme, or floral arrangements, they still want to look their best (or should want to). Here are a few things grooms can start doing to prepare themselves for their big day!
Keep Your (and your bride’s) Stress Level Low:
For the bride, planning a wedding can be stressful. Between parents, in-laws and the bridal party, your wife-to-be will be receiving a lot of unwanted opinions. Have a conversation with your bride early on in the planning. Discuss both of your expectations for your wedding, the budget, which one of you will be taking care of what, and what can you tackle together. Once responsibilities and tasks are laid out, do yourself a favor and stay on schedule and get your jobs done. If you need some guidance on where to begin or want to check out if your on the right track, check out this 12 month breakdown.
Your Looks Matter too:
Every blushing bride needs a dapper groom. So make sure to take a little more pride than usual when it comes to your appearance on your wedding day. This may also require some effort before the morning of your wedding. Start at the top with your hair. Now this does not mean this is the perfect opportunity to try out a new hairstyle. But as men age (as early as their 20s), many can experience male pattern baldness or hair loss in general. So it is important for men to take care of their hair as they age, especially when you have a big day like your wedding coming up. Start taking care of your scalp now by adding biotin vitamins to your daily routine and look into products that can help prevent hair loss from Hims. Don’t just stop with your hair, think about your skin. If you are already prone to skin issues, its best to start addressing them early on in the planning. Trying new skincare products can surely help tackle problematic areas but can also be risky. Look for products that won’t be harmful for your skin and are paraben-free and sulfate-free like these ones offered from Harry’s. Lastly, don’t wait until weeks before your wedding to figure out what you’re going to wear. Decide early what you’re the most comfortable and confident in, whether it’s a tux, suit, or a nice pair of pants and a shirt. Look into color options and discuss your selections with your bride. You want to make sure what you have chosen will look great standing next to your bride and wedding party!
Don’t Forget About your Overall Health:
Both your mental and physical health should be a priority all the time, not just when wedding planning. However, it is very easy to let your health slip your mind when it’s clouded by venue, flower, and food options. So it’s important to make your health a priority through this entire process. If you are struggling with mental health issues, there is no time like the present to address it. Seek guidance from a doctor, therapist or medical professional. They can listen to how you're feeling and share insight on different ways to deal with it. Better to get this type of thing sorted out now before you also take on the role of a husband. When it comes to physical health, many individuals pay closer attention when they have a goal they are working toward and a wedding can be the perfect target. First thing’s first, if you have not already established a workout routine, it’s time to get one started. This does not mean you have to start going to the gym, get a personal trainer and start some crazy fasting diet. You need to take an approach that you know you can stay committed to. There are plenty of options and even apps to get a good workout in at home or outside. You can even tackle this task with your bride so you can both get fit for your big day!
Your health and appearance are important factors of having a great wedding day, so don’t forget to take a deep breath while planning and remember what it’s all about: marrying the love of your life. Now it’s time to enjoy planning with your soon-to-be-bride, and before you know it, the big day will be here!
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Happy Planning! ~Rebecca
